Realy scared right now need help?!!!!!!!!!?
my gf is pregnant. she told me right after she found out about 2 weeks ago. the baby isent ganna be born untill late january or early febuary, but im starting to get realy scared. idk why. we have wanted a baby for a long time, but now idk what to do. it’s diffrent now that the baby is ganna be born.
Joe, the same thing happened to me and my baby’s biological father. Being scared is a good thing. If you weren’t scared I would think there would be something wrong with you. Being scared (although definitely not fun) shows that you realize what a huge journey the three of you are beginning. Your girlfriend is probably just as scared as you and chances are she won’t feel like she can say that. After the baby is born you will get that same lump in your gut the first time you see them bleeding or when they are burning up with fever. This fear is practice. Telling you not to worry would be ridiculous (I know), so whenever you have a quiet moment with no one else around grab a pen & paper and write down each thing about this whole situation that scares you. When you finish, go back and for each of your fears jot a couple things that you could do that might make it less scary. Hope this helps. Hang in there and congratulations